How AccessCal’s Founder and Executive Director went from helping herself to helping thousands of vulnerable community members.
My dream came to life when I received a marriage proposal at the age of 16. It was the ticket I needed to move to the United States so naturally I eagerly accepted. Without finishing high school and leaving school at 9th grade, I packed my bags, excited to begin a new life in my dream country.
Years down the line, unfortunately my marriage came to an end and I found myself a single mom to three children, living as an immigrant in a foreign country. It was overwhelming. I felt like I needed to speak to someone about the challenges and hardship I was enduring. Divorce continued to have a great deal of stigma in the community and I had no one to speak to. I sought comfort at a local mosque but I felt like I was not receiving the emotional support I needed. I decided to visit a mainstream therapist but she did not understand my culture or my background and I just could not connect. Receiving counseling became so hard and I gave up. I thought of my fellow community members within the Arab-American and Muslim population who were also struggling. What if they too, were missing out on vital services, because of language and cultural barriers?